The Dreaded "Friend Zone" and some other shit

  • You hear phrases like: “I can talk to you about anything,“ “You‘re really a nice guy,” “You‘re like a brother to me,” “You‘re my best friend,” and “You understand me."
  • You finally work up the courage to ask her out and she tells you: “I don’t want to jeopardize our friendship,” “I like you too much to go out with you,” “I don’t want to risk losing what we have,” and so on.
  •  She tells you all about her problems with men.
  •  She asks you for advice about the men she’s attracted to.
  •  She tells you excitedly, “I just met this really great guy!”

  •    It has become the norm for most (if not all) girls to "claim" the want a good guy or "good men are so hard to find" or "all the good ones are taken". The funny thing is, when they finally find this good guy, they immediately place him in the  friend category. What do they do then??? They of course fall for the player or the thug , your typical Bad Boy. What they however fail to realize is that, in falling for a "bad boy" 99% of the time, bad things are going to happen to you because of that. Sadly when these bad things do happen, the always tend to have the nerve to claim that All guys are the same. When in reality your just a dumb bitch. Yeah i said it, and you know its true. Now I'm not saying that when you fall for a "good guy" that it will be all fun and happiness. No, but the good will definitely outweigh that which follows you when you get your self tied to a bad boy. Fact.

  •      What some of us men fail to realize is that some of the reasons we are pushed to being the "Friend" is that not only are we too "Good" but its that these same women (some of them) don't see men for who they are but for what they have instead. Most women will remove you from the friend zone if you can "buy" your way out so to speak. They want money point blank. Now another thing that may push you over the line from Friend zone is if you as a man have a great package. You always hear women talking about dick  size and whatnot. Most of them are lying, yes some of them are speaking the truth you cant deny it, but the majority of them are living with senor short dick. Please click me for a video Probably because he has money, heck maybe he even has that bad boy streak, either way she is with him for something. There are quite a few more things 

  •      You can avoid being in the friend zone quite easily (wish i could take my own advice but what you gonna do *shrug). Anyway to avoid the friend zone simply do the following.....

    1) Make yourself scarce. Don't be available at her every cry for help, let her miss you a little
    2) Date other women. Make her know that your options are always open make her know that there is always someone waiting to take her space in your life
    3) If you really want to get under her skin talk to HER about other women you are dating. Ask her for advice in how to deal with them
    4) If you see a woman you think you want to date start off telling her you want to be just friends, this is a total mind fuck for her. Women are usually the ones who initiate the "just friends" scenario so when the tables are turned 9:1 chances are she will try and change that.

         There are many other things you can do to avoid the friend zone. These are just a few to help get you started and these are not set in stone. So you don't HAVE to make them your objective or your game plan.

         Now I mentioned that girls tend to wait to label all guys as bad apples once they have been with one. And i know I've said this countless times in some other posts (like this one) but this just goes to show how much it pisses me off. All men are NOT the same. Learn this. No all men don't just want sex, NO all men are not players, NO all men do not cheat, NO all men do not do all those other things you claim we do. You see what i don't understand is, all of you women (yes I'm going there) claim that we do all this shit and you feel justified, but the MINUTE a guy calls you all out as Gold Diggers, Sluts, Loose and whatever the fuck else, you immediately go on the defensive. Its as if you can class us whichever way you want to class us and we are to accept it but you and only you are allowed to class yourselves. Bullshit -___- and i don't care who wants to say anything about it. If that's the case all of you are Bitches. hows that for being general???? But how does it feel to be on the receiving end???? Its not a nice feeling is it??? No?? I thought so. We don't like it either. Cut it the fuck out.

    Anything you would like to add again just post in the comments section below. Have Nice Day :)




    1. You pretty much summed it up! I quite agree with yah there!!

    2. *takes a bow* Thank you for your kind words :D

    3. date other women? if you have enough libido to date other women theni dont think this advice is necessary most guys can do find if they are able to "date other women"

    4. Ah dear anon you seem to be missing the concept of whats going on here. You already found the person you want to date but she considers you as a friend. Its not that you cant find and date any other women. No, the point is you want THIS one and youre only trying to make her jealous enough of the woman youre dating to come after you herself. Its psychology

    5. I agree with everything you said here! Especially the "All men are NOT the same" part! Amen to that!
      I have something to add about the bad boys dem! I've noticed one reason why good men go bad and in return fail to treat women nice is because one stupid careless gyal broke his heart @ the first place. My point is each individual is different and no one should be responsible for another person's bad actions.

    6. this is why me and you can gree enuh :)


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