Pretty Girls and.... Girls???? Why???
Sáni Xclamation says:
It's always the prettiest girls who prefer girls. Why??
Alwayne Says:
This was asked on facebook and on twitter and there was a slow but steady influx of replies mostly by the female species if i may add and there were a variety of different answers one girl went as far as to say in the same breath that it is the Pretty/Cute boys which like the other Pretty/Cute Boys. I beg to differ though a mean look how mi cute *flashes knee buckling smile*. Anyway, the way i see it is these pretty girls which turn to the dark side are the ones who have (in my opinion) been in some of the worst relationships with the worst breed of males, the ones who don't cherish or care for them and don't fulfill their desires in and out of the bedroom and so to get what they want they turn to females. Females who understand them and know exactly how to please them. Another explanation as another female stated is simply that:
"It doesn't have to be as a result of an abusive past relationship. It could be just mere choice/ preference. Pretty girls like pretty girls because its the beauty that stirs sexual emotions, then secondarily, most times, personality"
#ThatsWhatSheSaid
I have to agree with her tho she brings a good argument however, woman was made for woman so if anything you she be noticing the beauty in males leave the females for the guys. Some of you women are the cause of some of these gay dudes in a sense. Take for example some of my strong black women. You all fawn over these brown skinned american women and take the black males of your own for granted and what do the do to try and win you back?? Them buss a kartel and start rub out them blackness to try and match up to the white man. Most of you women want money and when a man cant find money you move on to someone who can support your lucrative lifestyle. What do you leave that man to do when hes already doing the best he can??? That man goes and sells his ass for a piece of change. Now im not condoning man to man relationships here im just stating an opinion if you dont like it stop read and Kirrout! Now you made me stray off point... -__-
So to the men now seeing that we have listed some of the more common reasons why women will become lesbians do you think there is anyway possible to stem the flow? Well yes, Yes There IS!!!!
Treat the ladies better. Respect them. For Gods Sake stop cheating on them. They do have feelings you know??? If you take a minute and analyze yourself you could very well see what you are doing wrong and make a change. When you and her are in bed think about what will make her feel good and trust me you will end up helping yourself feel even better in the aftermath.
Ladies some of you are already full fledged lesbians (Dont rawse deny it!!) but some of you are just bisexual (Nuh deny dat needa!!) and others still are simply bi-curious (I believe every female is bi-curious, My Opinion) but here is my argument. Even tho a woman can please you in ways no man can, no amount of tongue, finger or toy action can give you the feeling of a dick sliding into you some of you full fledged lesbians should put down women for lent and see how good the man makes you feel. So yes there is a cure ladies its not sold in stores though. You can come to me for your free sample. Its called
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The truth is there are a bunch of theories out there, but no one can absolutely say what the right answer is. Some would like to point to past molestation, but that theory has been discounted - for every lesbian who was molested by a man as a child, there are at least 3 straight women who were molested similarly. As to bisexuals, they are as much a mystery as whatever the elusive reason is that some women are straight and some are lesbians.
Sexuality is believed to be biologically influenced initially, but all biologically programmed personality traits (such as agression, intellect, ability to nurture) are subject to the influence of environment too. So a woman who might be biologically ambivolent (not strongly hetrosexual or homosexual) could be tipped to the heterosexual by social programming toward raising a family or perpetuating the species but tipped to the homosexual by abuse by a male at an early age and rejection of the abusive sex.
People are born with chemicals in their brain that stimulate sexual drive, chemicals in our brains decide before we are even born what we will be attracted to. Thus nobody can choose their sexuality, it's given to them, but depending on how their life goes or other factors humans can undergo changes in their brain which will allow them to gain a higher attraction from one stimuli or another, not changing their sexuality, only making it more defined to them. Choosing to act on your sexual desire may allow you to lie to the public, but if you like men you cannot change that, if you like women, you still can't change it, and if you like both men and women, well guess what, you can't change that either. Religion has nothing to do with this question and should not be in the answer. People cannot change their sexuality.
Spiritual or Religious Answers:
Women are not born gay, that is fact. It's set in stone no denying. It's a challenge given to some people to work throught to turn to God. There would be no point in life if it were simple and easy.
Yes, God created everyone and gave us all a free will to do what is right. God does not condone gays or lesbians or else He wouldn't have said what he said in the bible. I am not judging because I have had some very close friends that were gay & bisexual, and I am not a bible thumper to preach to anyone about what they do....God knows I have a closet full of skeletons as well.....
Answers from Someones Personal Experience:
The first thing most of us have to understand about homosexuality is that it is not so much about sex as much it is about people. Consider a heterosexual couple, do we believe that everything that exists between them is a result of their sexual preference? most of us would disagree. we are conditioned to believe that a heterosexual relationship is normal because it is more commonly seen, but what we need to think about is whether the less common things in life can be dismissed off as abnormal? Of course we've been living life on the principle that the less common happens to be abnormal but i strongly believe that anything nature has (or God for believers) created is a natural phenomenon.
Yes... the choice factor exists, but not in whether someone wants to like a woman or a man but in whether they want to act upon their choice once its made. today we debate and discuss sexual orientation so much because more and more people are ready to accept their natural feelings.
what we need to discuss is not "why" things are the way they are, because that's hardly important. whats more pressing is why we think its abnormal or a deviant.
if a man and a woman can fall in love without their orientation being talked about, so can the rest. AFTER ALL, we fall in love with people, not genders.
People do not 'become' gay/or lesbian. People simply are how they are. Think about it. When heterosexual people are asked if they could just start being gay if they decided to they almost always answer "no".
Woman become lesbians because they don't like men. They are not attracted to them as much or just don't like them as people and both. So they don't like them. They say that people are born gay and lesbian but are pedophiles born pedophiles? People can change their sexuality from straight to Gay without being born that way.
Women don't become lesbians we're all born differently, god created lesbians, gays, bisexuals and heteros in his own image at birth. We're all born the way we are.
Yes, they DO become lesbians and men DO become gay. You were not born that way. At an early age you may have an attraction more for the same sex or not....a LOT of times little girls that have been sexually abused OR mentally abused by males will truly hate males and identify easier with women. There have been women that never have had anything to do with a male sexually and no, they are NOT bisexual.
Well in my opinion I find the same sex more understanding. A guy says its diffficult to understand a woman and women say it's hard to understand a guy so I stick to chicks. Plus being with a chick has its advantages since she's a woman too she probably knows what satisfies you better than a man.
Because they like women.
Women don't "become" lesbians...Women are either lesbians or not....They have the attraction towards women, or they are in love with women. In all honestly, the saddest part about hearing people ask questions like that is that they really have no idea what they are talking about. For example, men don't become "gay" either...They either are or aren't... So many people make bad images for others, and it's beginning to get sad over how so many people see the gay and lesbian community of today.
Women don't become lesbians, they just are. A BIG difference.
Ok. Some women become lesbians later on in life and others feel they have always been like that. The question is far too open ended. People are individuals and they all have their individual answers to this question. Personally I've always been into women partly because women have always been strong characters in my life and possible because men were rare in my childhood. I have also spoken to my mother and she has confessed to some homosexual tendencies during her teenage years.
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Totally agree wid the bi-curious statement. and i am a firm advocate for the don't give up on the dick movement for females. cause at the end of the day its much better to be bi wid the possibility of going back to the dickly ways rather than giving up on the dick. #BiWinning
ReplyDelete#WhichIsRight aint that the truth if them have woman better them bi-sexual than go str8 lez
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